what is the difference

I just reconnected with a great friend who I haven't talk to in over 8 years. In our short communications, she said I remind her of a Black Japanese folk singer from Pittsburgh who is a man, and she wrote: "I won’t be back to Japan for while so I will see you sometime!!! When I was in Japan, I started listening to a folk singer from Pittsburgh. He became really famous in Japan. He sings Japanese folk songs because his gramma was Japanese. You remind me of him…u r funny!"

If I mirror a famous Black Japanese folk singer who is a man, am I versatile or are we all the same?